Circumstances.

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Things change. Circumstances change. Sometimes for the worse, but mostly for the better. Even though these changes might do things, unacceptable things, hurtful things and what may seem like completely brain-wrecking at that moment, it happens for a reason. Everything affects everything. Sometimes the only thing you can do, is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe. Have faith that everything will work out for the best. Nothing in your life is purposeless. Everyone enters your life for a reason. And everyone leaves for a reason. And everything in the middle.  Maybe you have a friend circle larger than most people you know, but that doesn't mean they're all going to be there for you. Just because they laugh with you, joke with you, or even bunk lectures, they're not your true friends. They'll probably stay when you're on top of the world and when everyone loves you. But of course, people's emotions are so fluctuating, right? One moment they love you, and next thing you know, they're saying things about you. But what do they do when you're low? Are they there for you? Do they even notice something is wrong with you? I guess you can't lose what you never had, you can't keep what's not yours, and you can't hold on to something that doesn't want to stay in the first place. That's the time to reconsider who you trust. Always make friends, but trust very few.
Have you ever felt so bothered by something, so much, that it even starts to affect your decision- making process? Or maybe even your perspective? If you have, twinning! If you  truly want to love yourself, how can you even think of hating the things that shaped who you are? The experiences? Your past? Those are the things you have to make peace with!
Everything you are experiencing at the moment, whatever it is, it's exactly what you need for your personal growth. Trust it. You're human. (not me, you! I'm immortal, jeez) It's okay to have a melt down. Just don't settle and live there. Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed. And someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason. Because trust me, one day, you'll look back and wonder why you didn't just live in the moment. Your life is a puzzle. Don't waste time trying to place people who don't fit.

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